I'm a widow. It's going to be (gasp) nineteen years in a few days. The loss stays with you, and you wrote this so well. I lost him to an accidental overdose, as well. It never gets easier, the missing of them, but the pain lessens. You're doing MUCH better and making MUCH healthier decisions than I made after - I commend you. Thanks for writing about this, and my deepest condolences on your loss.
I listened to your podcast and read your article, Brandon. I hope the writing and speaking out helps you heal. You made comments about your appearance and your voice, but I don’t think you need to worry about either. 😊 You actually have a deep, smooth voice that’s easy to listen to…so keep that in your pocket as an asset as a podcaster. I was also impressed that you didn’t use a script or edit the video and it came out so smoothly. You have probably heard this story in your head and heart so many times.
I am sorry that you’ve experienced the loss of Joe. You said you’re not a risk taker, but I think being in relationship with someone battling addiction is a huge risk. I also think that growing up conservative and coming out is a big risk. You seem quite brave to me. It seems to me that your decision to not just pack up and move to a town without a job wasn’t as much about taking risks as about having healthy boundaries. That’s wisdom.
I lost my nephew under similar circumstances two years ago. He was in his late twenties and had battled addiction since his teens, but had been clean for almost a year. He just suddenly died in his sleep with no evidence of drugs. Sadly, this is not uncommon. The body has been through so much with the addiction. But as you noted, it doesn’t change anything.
I hope you’re able to find peace and Joe will remain with you in the beauty of who you were together when he lived.
I’ve just started reading and listening to you. I look forward to seeing where you go with your writing and podcasting.
Thank you so much for your kind words. It helps to have support and positive feedback.
Yes, that day is carved into my mind forever, so it wasn't difficult to remember the details. I was only worried I'd completely break down in the middle of it. I'm sorry about your nephew. I think it's much more difficult to deal with someone who dies at a young age.
I appreciate the comments about the episode too. I've been unsure how popular it might be, but if I have something to talk about, I'll keep going. I might start a chat to garner suggestions for topics.
Thank you again for taking the time to read and listen. I truly appreciate supporters like you. 🙏
OMG This is heartbreaking. I am so sorry you lost your love.
Thank you. I appreciate it. It's been a few years, but I still tear up when I write or talk about it.
Understandably.
I'm a widow. It's going to be (gasp) nineteen years in a few days. The loss stays with you, and you wrote this so well. I lost him to an accidental overdose, as well. It never gets easier, the missing of them, but the pain lessens. You're doing MUCH better and making MUCH healthier decisions than I made after - I commend you. Thanks for writing about this, and my deepest condolences on your loss.
Thank you, Elle. I'm sorry for your loss too. The time seems to go so quickly. The vivid memory makes it feel like it was only a week ago.
I listened to your podcast and read your article, Brandon. I hope the writing and speaking out helps you heal. You made comments about your appearance and your voice, but I don’t think you need to worry about either. 😊 You actually have a deep, smooth voice that’s easy to listen to…so keep that in your pocket as an asset as a podcaster. I was also impressed that you didn’t use a script or edit the video and it came out so smoothly. You have probably heard this story in your head and heart so many times.
I am sorry that you’ve experienced the loss of Joe. You said you’re not a risk taker, but I think being in relationship with someone battling addiction is a huge risk. I also think that growing up conservative and coming out is a big risk. You seem quite brave to me. It seems to me that your decision to not just pack up and move to a town without a job wasn’t as much about taking risks as about having healthy boundaries. That’s wisdom.
I lost my nephew under similar circumstances two years ago. He was in his late twenties and had battled addiction since his teens, but had been clean for almost a year. He just suddenly died in his sleep with no evidence of drugs. Sadly, this is not uncommon. The body has been through so much with the addiction. But as you noted, it doesn’t change anything.
I hope you’re able to find peace and Joe will remain with you in the beauty of who you were together when he lived.
I’ve just started reading and listening to you. I look forward to seeing where you go with your writing and podcasting.
Thank you so much for your kind words. It helps to have support and positive feedback.
Yes, that day is carved into my mind forever, so it wasn't difficult to remember the details. I was only worried I'd completely break down in the middle of it. I'm sorry about your nephew. I think it's much more difficult to deal with someone who dies at a young age.
I appreciate the comments about the episode too. I've been unsure how popular it might be, but if I have something to talk about, I'll keep going. I might start a chat to garner suggestions for topics.
Thank you again for taking the time to read and listen. I truly appreciate supporters like you. 🙏